'' The most important person syndrome ''

Do you ever feel that as soon as you entered the room, people present there stopped talking for a moment...And then you feel that the conversation was about you.....??
Whatever people around you are speaking is not very clear to you and then you feel that the talk is about you, but in some encrypted form....
Your thoughts might be right sometimes but not always. But you feel this each time because you are suffering from something called ' the most important person syndrome'. :)
This is not fatal but could severely affect your mental and social peace. Important symptoms of this condition are as explained earlier but the consequences may be varied according to the stage.
For example: You may start refuting to the arguments as if it is being blamed on to you.
Sometimes you may start fighting with them for something that happened between you and him in recent past and start relating it to the ongoing conversation.
In some really complicated stage you may even start telling them incidents that they do not know and can some way be related to the ongoing talk. ( last one being fatal for you image :P )
Medical Historians believe that this is not a new syndrome as historical evidences have been found for its existence. It is believed that this was very common in years long back and '' CHOR KI DAADHI  MEIN TINKA'' could be the old ancient name for this disease. It narrates and represents similar situations in the history and hence have been adopted in Hindi literature.
There are no drugs for its cure so if you are affected go to baba 'ramdev' who cures everything or follow a strict mental therapy.This is a very important for you to realise that the most important person for anyone in his life is they themselves. But you fail to do that so you think that instead of themselves and things related to them they will discuss about 'you'.So, even if you feel its about you, bear the pain and Do Not Speak until you are invited to or else you will have to suffer intense pain.
Or you can try to follow some smart people who even after being sure that the talk is about them acts ignorant, and may even act as if they did not hear it or act as if they did not realise that its their name being taken. :P.....(very smart na) !!!
Dont go to that extent though.... :P And lets all hope to eradicate the 'chor ki daadhi mein tinka' / the most important person syndrome form our neighborhood. Thats all from Dr D ... :P

The Myth of 'genuine' friends

A discussion with one of my old friend made me write this down here...

 Genuine friend or true friend or whatever you may call it as.....is an hypothetical concept.One can either be a friend or be genuine and being both at the same time is both dangerous and fatal for your friendship.

The problems lies deep in the roots of beginning of friendship; which in general is due to people having same thinking or mutual appreciation or compatibility or...blah blah!! whatever. But if u are genuine then you are not a good friend and if you are a good friend then you should not be genuine. People love appreciation and praise even if they know its not genuine and as soon as its some true stuff on the darker side, that they might know is true, they start to dislike you because you finally said it.

You must have seen, people seldom ask genuine opinion about themselves to their friends; even you might have. Aaagrhh !!! and there they go....another friendship on fire...
"You say bad buddy and I will definitely pay you back" !!! ...the latter part was more relevant for girls.
For girls this is another level of problem...each one of them is in search of a 'genuine friend'...how is it gonna happen ? Its a run towards infinity.
You can not be or rather should not even try to be a genuine friend. Because its more dangerous in their case; if you are genuine they will not take is as a friend and later, when you are friends again (she will make sure you are..) she will make sure to nicely pay you back. :)
At least guys dont do that much ...unless they are drunk, which excites their 'payback policies' !!! :P

So if you have a genuine friend and he is still a good friend then you are lucky to have such rare species of humans ... :)
I think i should look back at mine .... you go back and search yours