The Myth of 'genuine' friends

A discussion with one of my old friend made me write this down here...

 Genuine friend or true friend or whatever you may call it as.....is an hypothetical concept.One can either be a friend or be genuine and being both at the same time is both dangerous and fatal for your friendship.

The problems lies deep in the roots of beginning of friendship; which in general is due to people having same thinking or mutual appreciation or compatibility or...blah blah!! whatever. But if u are genuine then you are not a good friend and if you are a good friend then you should not be genuine. People love appreciation and praise even if they know its not genuine and as soon as its some true stuff on the darker side, that they might know is true, they start to dislike you because you finally said it.

You must have seen, people seldom ask genuine opinion about themselves to their friends; even you might have. Aaagrhh !!! and there they go....another friendship on fire...
"You say bad buddy and I will definitely pay you back" !!! ...the latter part was more relevant for girls.
For girls this is another level of problem...each one of them is in search of a 'genuine friend'...how is it gonna happen ? Its a run towards infinity.
You can not be or rather should not even try to be a genuine friend. Because its more dangerous in their case; if you are genuine they will not take is as a friend and later, when you are friends again (she will make sure you are..) she will make sure to nicely pay you back. :)
At least guys dont do that much ...unless they are drunk, which excites their 'payback policies' !!! :P

So if you have a genuine friend and he is still a good friend then you are lucky to have such rare species of humans ... :)
I think i should look back at mine .... you go back and search yours